10 Best Gay Sex Positions We Recommend You Try This Year

10 Best Gay Sex Positions We Recommend You Try This Year

The times are changing, yes, but there’s one thing that will always be in fashion… sex! 

Regardless of one’s gender, sexual orientation, geographical location, and more, sex is universal. It’s stress-relieving, happy hormone-inducing, and great for recreational fun or more meaningful intimacy. 

So while every sexual experience is equally as important, we’re going to shine some light on 10 of the best gay sex positions.

Hold tight, because this ride is all about sexy positions that you simply have to try this year. 

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Discovering This Year's 10 Best Gay Positions

Before we start with our list, we wanted to mention that sex can be a very important aspect of a relationship

Sure, it’s not the be-all and end-all, but having great sex, however, can really keep a relationship exciting, and create a sexual chemistry that’s undeniable. 

And for those who are single, in a situation, or don’t conform to the rigidity of traditional relationship styles, safe and consensual sex can be a form of self-care and self-expression. Whether it be for one night or more.

With that in mind… 

What Makes Gay Sex Positions Different?

Many people believe that the ‘right’ way to have sex is p-in-v penetration. They might discount any other way that people have sex because they have preconceived ideas and values. 

While being respectful of people’s beliefs, it should be known that gay sex is ‘a thing’ and it’s valid. In fact, many gay sex positions are enjoyed by heterosexual couples too.

How is it different from heterosexual sex though? Gay sex involves two partners who both have penises. In this way, one could penetrate the other anally (and vice versa). But gay sex also incorporates foreplay, oral sex, and other kinds of sexual activity.

During a gay sex position that involves penetration, one partner will be at the ‘top’ and the other will be at the ‘bottom’. A top is someone who penetrates their partner, and a bottom is someone who receives penetration.

It’s possible for a person to assume one role in general by often or only having gay sex as a top or a bottom. Others may be open to both roles, and they can call themselves a ‘verse’.

Some things to note about gay sex? For one, if penetration is involved, some preparation is encouraged. For example, during anal sex, there is a possibility of an accident. To minimise the risk, the bottom may want to use a douche or an enema to empty the bowels beforehand. 

Another thing is that, in the case of gay sex, bigger isn’t always better. That’s because the anus isn’t as elastic as the vagina. So, deep penetration could be painful for some bottoms

And then, during gay sex anal penetration, one of the most pleasurable experiences is to target the P-spot aka the prostate. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located inside of the anus of penis owners. When stimulated, it can cause bigger erections and even full-body orgasms.

Lastly, lube is a must-have for gay sex. Unlike vulva owners who produce lubrication naturally, gay men who have penetrative sex need a generous amount of lube on hand. Shop JOUJOU: Lovense Edge 2 Adjustable Male Prostate Vibrator

4 Gay Sex Position Recommendations for Beginners

If you’re new to gay sex, you’ll definitely want to take it slow. It’s also important to be with someone you trust and to go slow.

As we mentioned, the anus is more tight than a vagina, so it may be uncomfortable at first. Slow and steady, the euphoria will come. 

 

1. The Missionary Gay Sex Position

Missionary isn’t just for heterosexual couples! Contrary to popular belief, the missionary style for gay men is anything but ordinary. 

To practice missionary-style gay sex, the bottom will lie on their back with their legs open and slightly raised. The top will then get on top of their partner, using their arms and legs to stay steady. Then, the top will insert their penis into the bottom’s anus.

This gay sex position is great because it offers the intimacy and connection of face-to-face sex. It also allows for some kissing to happen during penetration.

2. The Doggy Style Gay Sex Position

While doggy style is a relatively easy gay sex position, thus making it great for beginners, it does offer deep penetration. If you’re not entirely ready for this kind of sex, then the depth and speed of the thrusting should be controlled accordingly.

To practice doggy-style sex, the bottom can either lie flat on their stomach or get on all fours. If it’s the former, a pillow could be placed under the groin area to elevate the butt. Then, the top will get on top of the bottom and penetrate them.

As we mentioned, this gay sex position is great for deep penetration. So if that’s something you’re looking for, you’ll love it. Another benefit of doggy-style sex is that it’s comfortable for both partners, so there can be more focus on pleasure.

3. The Spooning Gay Sex Position

Spooning is an intimate act, whether it is during cuddling or during sex.

To have spooning gay sex, both partners will lie on their side, facing away from each other. The top will then be the big spoon and the bottom will be the little spoon. This offers the chance for the top to penetrate the bottom. 

You may love this position, especially if you’re having and/or you’re a beginner because it is a way for partners to have more skin-to-skin contact, which is nice during a sensual session.

4. Gay Anal Sex Positions Using Toys

Another way in which gay men can enjoy sex and penetration is to use sex toys

For example, you could use a prostate massager sex toy to penetrate a partner, which will effectively give them some excellent P-spot penetration. Or, you could use a vibrating cock ring during anal sex to facilitate bigger and stronger erections and to feel the sexy vibes during anal

There are so many other ways to play when it comes to gay sex toys and sex toys for men. Luckily for you, the world is your oyster when it comes to exploring them.

6 Gay Sex Positions for Experienced Players: How to Perform Them & Their Benefits

You’re a more experienced player in gay sex, are you? If so, it’s fair to say that you probably already know a lot of what we’ve said before. 

Not to worry, this part of the article is dedicated to you! 

 

1. The Cliff Diver Gay Sex Position

This sex position is similar to doggy style, but it has a twist. 

To practice it, the bottom will get on all fours, and the top will get behind them and start penetrating. Then, the top will stand up and lift the bottom up by the thighs or waist at the same time, making it possible for the bottom to wrap its legs around the top’s back.

One of the reasons this sex position is so great is that it allows for deep penetration. It also really solidifies the roles during sex, as the top is more dominant. This can be fun for those who like to take on either dominant or submissive roles in the bedroom.

2. The Back It In Gay Sex Position

This sex position for gay men is different in that it gives the bottom the opportunity to take control. 

To practice it, the top will sit down in a chair and bring their knees to their chest. In this position, their penis will be outward and forward. Then, the bottom will back it up so that the top can enter them. When penetration begins, the bottom can thrust as they find pleasurable to gain the best momentum.

You may love this sex position because the bottom does all the work to find their bliss. They know their body best, so controlling the speed, depth, and rhythm could be an exciting change for them.

3. The Knees Up Gay Sex Position

You can give it a try by having the bottom lie down on a couch, bed, or floor. The top will then grab the bottom’s ankles or calves and push their legs back toward the bottom’s chest. Then, the top can insert themselves into the bottom. 

A tip: the more pushed back the bottom’s legs are, the tighter the stimulation. So, if you’re a top who seeks that tight feeling, and your bottom enjoys that kind of penetration, then this position will be perfect.

4. The Rocking Chair Gay Sex Positions

“If the van’s a-rockin’, don’t come a-knockin’,” as the expression goes. And this gay sex position is all about the rocking. 

It starts off with the top lying down on their back and pulling their knees to their chest. The bottom will then sit backwards between the top’s legs in such a way that they can insert their partner’s penis into them. Once in position, the bottom can rock back and forth to find the best rhythm.

Why might you like this position for gay men? It gives off a different kind of stimulation because it allows for rocking back and forth. It also gives the top a great view!

5. The See-Saw Gay Sex Position

This position is a kind of workout and is better suited to couples who are experienced in anal sex

To practice it, the top will lie down on the ground and rest their calves straight on a chair. The bottom will then mount the top’s legs until their partner’s penis is inside of them. 

This is a goodie because it allows both partners to control the rhythm, speed, and depth. Teamwork at its best!

6. The Fisting Gay Sex Position

While this position doesn’t involve penetration with a penis, it does involve penetration. 

Fisting is when one partner uses a lot of lube and slides their entire hand inside of their partner, penetrating them. Once inside, the fingers could remain clenched or could be kept straight.

To fist someone, the person would first have to put their hand in a position that resembles a duck’s beak. They would not insert their fist into the anus (which is called “punching”.), but they would have their hand in a duck’s beak position, keeping the fingers as close together as possible until the entire hand is inserted into their partner. 

Of course, fisting will take some practice. You may want to use butt plugs or larger anal toys to prepare for this kind of penetration. When you are ready, however, being fisted can be amazing because it offers the chance to stimulate the prostate.

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Male Sex Toys Just for You

To add a bit more variety and adventure to your sex routine, a male sex toy is always a good idea. 

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Hands-free, powerful, and comfortable. The Lovense Edge 2 Adjustable Male Prostate Vibrator is a prostate massager that has a large bulb and a thinner, longer neck, which helps it stay in place perfectly during playtime. It also has an adjustable head, so you can be sure of targeted and strong vibrations on your P-spot. Additionally, it has dual motors for even more fun! Made of body-safe silicone, this male sex toy has wireless Bluetooth capabilities, is wearable, IPX7 waterproof, and highly discreet.

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Perfect for solo masturbation or a bit of play with your partner, the Lovense Gush Vibrating Penis Massager is a thrilling ride to experience. It works hands-free by sliding it onto the penis and getting to work with its different vibrational settings. Or, if you fancy stroking, you can do that too! Experiment with its tightness, intensity, and speed to find your favourite.

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Fleshlight is a super reliable sex toy brand that has taken the male masturbator world by storm. And the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage is smaller in size than the original, making it more discreet and travel-ready. Why is it great for gay sex? You can slip your penis into it and have some of the tip exposed because of the two orifices on both ends. Then, your partner can give you a blowjob, handjob, or whatever else you fancy to experience 2-in-1 pleasure.

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Another amazing male masturbator from Fleshlight, the Fleshlight Pilot Smooth Case features body-safe material and their exclusive SuperSkin sleeve that gives your penis that hyper-realistic feel. It’s also made up of a number of internal textures, such as bumps, nodules, and ribs, adding to the lifelike allure. Play alone or with your partner while this Pilot takes you to see the stars.

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Mimic the sweet sensation of anal sex with the Fleshlight Pink Butt Stamina Training Unit. When you use this male sex toy, you’ll experience a tighter feel whilst getting extra stimulation from the heavily textured inner sleeve. This male masturbator is fun to use solo or during intimate experiences with your partner! 

Fleshlight Add-Ons

And finally, because we’re so keen on the brand Fleshlight, we’d like to introduce you to the add-ons that can enhance your experience.

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Ready to have new and adventurous experiences with your lover? Whether you use sex toys or not, we think you’ll love trying some of these gay sex positions! Have fun! 


1 comment


  • Robwillie

    Great info!!
    As I’m always trying to find the P spot with my partner!!
    Love seeing him dribble pre cum!!
    And satisfying him


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