Strap Ons

Explore your wildest fantasies and discover a new world of possibilities with strap on sex toys.

What is a Strap On?

Strap on sex toys are versatile bedroom accessories designed to be worn around the hips. Strap ons typically consist of a harness or wearable garment with a dildo attachment. Strap ons can be used to allow one partner to penetrate the other, for BDSM power play scenes or for other gender affirming reasons. While strap ons are generally associated with women and the lesbian community, they have become increasingly popular among all genders.

What is a Strap On Harness?

The harness is the part of the strap on accessory that allows it to be comfortably worn by the user. There are many types of strap on harnesses to suit every dynamic.

Adjustable Strap On Harnesses

Ideal for partners who might like to share a strap on toy, adjustable harnesses can be worn by more than one person as you can adjust the components to suit any body.

Underwear-Style Harnesses

Underwear-style harnesses can appear less intimidating than some more complicated models, and are an excellent beginner friendly option. An underwear style harness is usually similar in appearance to regular pull on underwear, with a discreet O-ring where a dildo can be attached.

Leather and Faux Leather Harnesses

Leather and faux leather harnesses are a sexy and exciting option for those who like their toys to look a little hardcore. Leather and faux leather materials are easy to clean, and built to last. Not just for BDSM enthusiasts, leather harnesses can be purchased in a wide range of colours to appeal to any aesthetic.

Different Types of Strap Ons

Classic Strap On Harness Sets

An essential starting point for anyone curious about strap on sex toys, classic strap on harness sets come with everything you need to start exploring. These sets generally feature:

• An adjustable, one-size-fits-most harness

• At least one dildo attachment

If you're just starting out, look for harness sets that are compatible with other strap on dildos so you can expand your collection as you get more comfortable.

Strapless Strap Ons

Strapless strap on dildos offer a sleek penetration experience without the need for a traditional harness. These two sided toys are designed with a standard dildo at one end for the receiving partner, and a bulbous shaped attachment at the other end which is inserted inside the thrusting partner to act as an anchor. The bulbous attachment is often designed for G-spot or prostate stimulation, offering stimulation to both partners simultaneously.

Double-Ended Strap Ons

Similar to strapless strap ons, double ended strap ons are toys designed to penetrate both partners. Unlike strapless toys which typically have a bulbous anchor point, double ended strap on sex toys usually consist of two dildos of similar size.

Pegging Strap Ons

While strap on sex toys can be used by anyone regardless of sexual orientation, pegging specifically refers to a woman wearing a strap on to penetrate her male partner. Many men enjoy the anal stimulation pegging provides, and pegging strap ons have slightly different features to classic strap on sets. Strap on dildos designed for pegging are slightly smaller and thinner than a classic dildo, which allows for more comfortable penetration for men experiencing pegging for the first time.

Solo Strap Ons

Strap ons can open up new avenues of solo pleasure in the bedroom. A strapless or double ended strap on dildo can also be used alone. Women who enjoy the sensation of anal play can use their strap ons to penetrate themselves anally and vaginally at the same time. As these toys are designed for a secure fit inside the wearer, they can be worn in different positions to safely experience new sensations on your own.

How to Choose the Best Strap On for You

When choosing your first strap on, there are a few key details you should consider.

Choose the Right Harness Style

If strapping on a thick leather harness makes you feel sexy and powerful, an adjustable leather harness might sound like fun. If you find a lot of buckles overstimulating, or you'd like to discreetly wear your harness in public, a comfortable underwear style harness might be the better purchase.

Choose the Right Dildo Size

When it comes to new intimacy experiences (especially concerning the back door), it's always best to start small and work your way up. If you intend to use your strap on for anal sex adventures, even the smallest dildo can provide delicious stimulation to your sensitive nerve endings.

Check the Material

Using toys made from body safe materials is essential for safe play. Anything that goes into your body should be made of a smooth, high quality material such as medical grade silicone. The material you choose also impacts the lube you should use. If you're using a silicone based toy, make sure you use a water based lube to avoid degrading your toys over time.

Consider Anal vs Vaginal Play

Will you be using your strap on for pegging fun, vaginal penetration or oral sex fantasy scenes? Whatever your desires, explore all your strap on options to maximise your pleasure and ensure comfortable penetration. If you're not sure what activity you'll be enjoying, consider a strap on set with multiple attachments, or the ability to add new attachments later on.

Think About Solo vs Couples Play

Are you part of a couple who would like to explore less traditional roles in the bedroom? Some role reversal with a little pegging can be an excellent way to explore your wildest dreams together. Couples who experience erectile dysfunction may also find that their intimacy can be greatly enhanced through the use of strap on dildos. If you prefer to experience passion on your own, consider double ended strap on toys to give yourself exciting options whenever you're in the mood.

JOUJOU’s Strap On Recommendations

Best Strapless Strap On- Lovense Lapis Double-Ended Vibrating Strapless Strap-On

The Lovense Lapis Double-Ended Vibrating Strapless Strap-On is a lightweight toy with a flexible neck to ensure a comfortable wearing experience. Featuring three stimulations and vibrations for both partners, this toy can be synced with Lovense Music Sync for an unforgettable music experience.

Best Vibrating Strapless Strap On - Her Royal Harness Me2 Remote Rumbler

The dual motor Her Royal Harness Me2 Remote Rumbler is waterproof and ready to please. Enjoy a whopping 45 minutes of high intensity vibrations or 150 minutes of low speed vibrations, all controllable with the included remote.

Best Beginner Strap On Harness - ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit

The ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit features a comfortable, adjustable harness and a non-realistic, slim 5 inch dildo for comfortable, beginner friendly penetration.

Best Strap On for Pegging - Anal Fantasy Collection The Pegger

The perfect choice for pegging newcomers, the Anal Fantasy Collection The Pegger features a slim insertable dildo just under 5 inches, with a plush lined, adjustable harness. Keep your toys in tiptop condition with he included antibacterial toy cleaner.

Best Premium Strap On Harness - Fun Factory Share Lite Silicone Strapless Strap-On

For a lifetime of fun, look no further than the Fun Factory Share Lite Silicone Strapless Strap-On. 22% lighter than the original Share Lite, this double dildo offers lightweight, harness-free pegging and play.

How to Use a Strap On Safely and Comfortably

Whether you're trying some role reversal for the first time or you're a strap on pro, there are a few things to remember for the best experience.

• Discuss your desires and comfort levels before jumping straight to sex

• Start slow, with smaller attachments

• Communicate with your partner throughout the experience

• Try different positions to discover what works for you

• Use plenty of lube

Strap On FAQs

What is the best strap on for beginners?

It depends on how you want to use your strap on. Most beginners will find everything they need in a classic strap on set. For the safest introduction to strap on intimacy, look for a comfortable harness and a smaller dildo attachment.

How do you choose the right strap on harness?

Think about what matters to you when it comes to passion and bedroom play. Most users can't go wrong with a comfortable, adjustable harness and a dildo attachment made from body safe silicone. Take your time exploring our range of strap on options to find a toy that speaks to you.

What is a strapless strap on?

Strapless strap ons are toys designed to be worn internally by the giver. Typically featuring a bulbous anchor that sits inside the vagina or anus, these strap ons can be worn securely without the need for a harness.

Can strap ons be used for pegging?

Absolutely! Strap ons are an excellent option for pegging. Before engaging in any anal play, talk to your partner about their comfort levels and be prepared to adjust your thrusting rhythm. Remember, even though you're wearing the strap, the receiver is always in control.

Can you use a strap on for solo play?

Definitely. If you're curious about strap ons you don't need to wait for a partner to experience the pleasure they can provide. Strapless or double ended strap on options are an exciting way to spice up your solo intimacy in the privacy of your own home.

What lubricant should I use with a strap on?

A good lubricant can take your pleasure to the next level. A high quality water based lubricant is a good choice for most people and most toys, however you should check whether your specific strap on toy has any special instructions for lube compatibility.

How do you clean a strap on dildo and harness?

Depending on the material your harness and attachments are made of, the manufacturer may recommend particular cleaning rituals. Most strap on harnesses can be wiped clean, and the majority of strap on dildos can be cleaned using a special toy cleaner or warm soapy water.

Are strap ons only for couples?

You can use your strap on with any sexual partner, you do not have to be in a couple. If you are using a strap on with multiple partners, you should consider swapping out different toys for each partner, and practice safe sex by using condoms with your strap on dildos.

What size strap on should I start with?

Choosing a strap on size is all about exploring your own desires and discovering what brings you the greatest pleasure. If you're a size queen, you can most likely use whatever size dildo attachments you already enjoy. If you're introducing anal pleasure to your sex life, start with the smaller strap on dildos and work your way up.

Can you change the dildo on a strap on harness?

Most strap on harnesses have an O-ring attachment that is compatible with many variations of dildos, vibrators and other toys. Why limit your pleasure to just one dildo when you can experience them all?