Stimulate Him! A Go-To Guide on Stimulating a Man’s Prostate

Just because men are more prone to orgasm easier and quicker than women doesn’t mean that they don’t deserve new and innovative ways to get off. Women do, after all, have a ton more sex toys available to them than men do. 

Which is why we’ve dedicated this guide to all the men out there who are dying to experience a different, more intense kind of orgasm… and those who want to give them a helping hand.

And what is arguably the most sensual and erotic spot for men? Their prostate! Now before you start to feel a bit awkward or squeamish… don’t! When a man gets his prostate stimulated, he not only receives an orgasm like never before but also gains sexual health benefits. This is because masturbating frequently, especially via the prostate, can help prevent prostate cancer! 

So, for those who want to increase their man’s pleasure by leaps and bounds, roll up your sleeves and take note of how you can stimulate his prostate. 

What is the Prostate?

The prostate, sometimes also known as the male g-spot, or the p-spot, can be found inside a man’s body, behind the penis. It’s a small, walnut-shaped gland that is loaded with sensitive nerve endings - which is why, when stimulated, can cause intense orgasms. 

How to Stimulate the Prostate

The best way to stimulate the prostate is through the rectum. And because this gland is rife with nerve endings, one should be gentle with it. This is the best advice to follow when stimulating his prostate.

Step One: Make sure you’ve used more than enough lube, whether you use your fingers or a toy.

Step Two: Slowly insert… whatever you plan to insert… until it reaches about two inches inside. You’re going to want to push it forward so that it presses against the wall of the perineum (the area between the balls and the anus). 

Step Three: Once comfortable, allow your finger(s) or toy to get about three-quarters deep inside the anus, and use the ‘come hither’ motion, which is recommended. You could also move your finger in a circular motion around the prostate if you’d like. How can you know for sure that you’ve found the prostate? It’s a prominent gland that literally feels like a walnut, so it’s quite hard to miss.

Step Four: Use communication to guide your experience and to massage the prostate in such a way that it feels good for him. This, and the fact that you should be very gentle and careful, is the most important thing when it comes to prostate stimulation.

Stimulating the Prostate: After Care

Once you’ve experienced this new and exciting sexual act, you may want to engage in a bit of aftercare with your partner. 

This could be taking a shower or bath together, or simply talking about the experience in a non-judgemental fashion. In this way, you too can learn how to improve on the technique and get the very best out of your playtime.

Prostate Stimulation Toys

Dare to indulge? There are various prostate stimulation toys that were made with the sole purpose of getting him off hard. So, why not consider one of these top prostate massagers.

	WeVibe Vector Plus Vibrating Prostate Massager Combine gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations, and what do you get? The WeVibe Vector Plus. This beautifully-designed prostate massager stimulates both the p-spot and the perineum, giving you dual sensations. And the added bonus? It comes with a remote and a free We-Connect app, so that you or your partner can control the fun. It also comes with a remote and a free We-Connect app, allowing you or your partner to control the fun from anywhere. The Vector Plus is made of body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof, making it easy to clean and suitable for use in various settings.
	LELO Hugo Prostate Massager This remote-controlled prostate massager is brought to you by LELO, one of the world’s leading luxury sex toy brands. It’s been designed with absolute precision using SenseMotion technology, and has two different motors for vibration fun! The Hugo’s ergonomic design allows it to target the prostate effortlessly, and its remote control functionality means you or your partner can take charge, adding an exciting element of play. Made with body-safe silicone, it’s also fully waterproof, making it perfect for adventurous use in the shower or bathtub.
	Lovense Edge 2 Adjustable Male Prostate Vibrator The Lovense Edge 2 is a versatile prostate massager that features adjustable arms for a customised fit, ensuring optimal prostate stimulation. It boasts dual motors for powerful vibrations, controllable via the Lovense app, allowing you or a partner to take control from anywhere. Its waterproof design makes it easy to clean and is perfect for use in the shower. With multiple vibration patterns and remote control capabilities, the Edge 2 is designed to enhance pleasure like never before.
	Anal Fantasy Collection Ass Gasm Cock Ring Prostate Plug Looking for an explosive pleasure? The Ass-Gasm Cockring Plug combines prostate stimulation with a performance-enhancing cock ring. Made from silky-smooth Elite Silicone, it prolongs ejaculation while maintaining firm erections. The snug, stretchy ring and tapered shaft ensure comfort and stability during play.
	Winyi Derek Warming Rotating Vibrating Prostate Stimulator Looking for a budget-friendly option without compromising on pleasure? The Winyi Derek offers an impressive combination of warming, rotating, and vibrating functions for extraordinary prostate stimulation. Crafted from body-safe silicone, this ergonomic device targets the prostate with deep, satisfying vibrations. With multiple settings for rotation and vibration, you can easily customise your experience. The warming feature enhances sensitivity, and its waterproof design makes it ideal for adventurous play.

The prostate doesn’t look too intimidating now, is it? With these sleek toys and our easy steps on how to gain the best p-spot pleasure, you’ll surely take him to a land of sheer bliss in no time. Happy playing!

Article by:
Helena Lorimer, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert at JOUJOU