Takeaway - Still find orgasms to be mythical creatures - hopefully not always, but more often than you´d like? Here are five sex positions to maximise clitoral stimulation, with a sex toy to compliment each! With these, you'll never have another sexual encounter without ecstasy.
Good old missionary. Many people frown upon this standard position because it´s the go-to position and the same old same old gets boring. This is understandable, but there´s no position better for the friction needed for clitoral stimulation, especially for the woman whose clitoris is located further from the vaginal opening than others. One of the reasons missionary gets monotonous is because men start to focus on the sensation of thrusting when they´re ready to climax. Grab his rear to pull him closer to you and deeper into you, or ask him to move in circles. The circular movement in the missionary position can produce orgasms that leave a woman with eyes rolled in the back of her head and a moan that is so deep she can´t even find her voice. If he moves up a little further horizontally as well, he won´t just be thrusting - he'll be moving down and then thrusting, which further stimulates the clit. Add the Intimate Earth Gentle Clitoral Gel for a little extra lubrication and sensation.
The seashell. This is a position that is a variant on the missionary but with one very sexy twist - the woman lifts one of her legs up and supports it against her partner. This opens up the vulva, causing a lot of direct labial and clitorial stimulation. Like with the missionary, moving further up and moving in a circular position will enhance the orgasm. This position can also open you and your partner up so that one or both can slip in your hands to play with one another, and provides a nice visual of him thrusting into you. Visual arousal is important too! For extra stimulation, try the Je Joue MIMI SOFT, small enough to slip between the two of you. If you need just a little more excitement but not direct contact, try holding it in the palm of your hand while massaging your clit with your fingertips. The added gentle vibration is amazing during the seashell!
The om. Your partner sits with his legs crossed and you straddle him. In one way it is an erect version of the woman-on-top position, but it combines with the missionary so that the woman feels more control while her partner also maintains some by clasping her to him, and the friction produced is similar. To get maximum sensation, rub yourself up and down on his shaft and against his pelvis. He can also pull you closer or you can wrap your legs tightly around his back. There´s a perfect toy for this position and it´ll blow your mind - try the OptiMale Vibrating Double C-Ring to stimulate the penis shaft and testicles while doubly stimulating the clitoris and anus. Adding gentle anal stimulation when aroused by ongoing sexual activity is another level of ecstasy that cannot be contained.
The valedictorian. Sort of like the seashell, this involves both legs in the air and in a V-for-victory shape. Some women scoff at this as a position for the clitoris but I´ve discovered the secret - again with other woman-on-the-bottom face-to-face positions, have him ride high and have him press down. Bring your arms behind him and hug him to you. He´ll get deeper in this position than in any other, and deep penetration with clitoral stimulation provides an intense orgasm. This sounds like it can be a challenge for some women but it rarely is with a little foreplay to relax beforehand. Hard to add additional clitoral stimulation here, but remember that the clitoris actually extends into all other parts of the erogenous zone. Anal Fantasy Collection Boyfriend Beads are a perfect accessory - easy to insert in this position and less likely to be uncomfortable to insert with amazing sensation.
- The pretzel. Here´s a position we've all probably tried but may not have done right, and it´s hard to explain. The woman is slightly on her side, with her male partner straddling the lower leg and the upper leg crossed over to his other side. Like the valedictorian, it can be challenging if you aren´t flexible, but a relaxed and aroused woman can achieve surprising positions! With the Silicone Fluttering Enhancer, a woman or her partner can further excite her no matter how difficult she is to reach, as long as there´s a free hand!