Our last post explored just why the clitoris is such a mysterious but important and adored part of the female anatomy, but readers were left wanting to know more. Just how can you stimulate the clitoris and achieve maximum orgasm potential? This week we´re going to explore sex positions to best enhance the experience and the sex toys you can use with each position to take the rush even further.
1. Good old missionary. Many people frown upon this standard position because it´s the go-to position and the same old same old gets boring. This is understandable, but there´s no position better for the friction needed for clitoral stimulation, especially for the woman whose clitoris is located further from the vaginal opening than others. One of the reasons missionary gets monotonous is because men start to focus on the sensation of thrusting when they´re ready to climax. Grab his rear to pull him closer to you and deeper into you, or ask him to move in circles. The circular movement in the missionary position can produce orgasms that leave a woman with eyes rolled in the back of her head and a moan that is so deep she can´t even find her voice. If he moves up a little further horizontally as well, he won´t just be thrusting - he'll be moving down and then thrusting, which further stimulates the clit.
|Add the Intimate Earth Gentle Clitoral Gel for a little extra lubrication and sensation.|
|For extra stimulation, try the Je Joue MIMI SOFT, small enough to slip between the two of you. If you need just a little more excitement but not direct contact, try holding it in the palm of your hand while massaging your clit with your fingertips. The added gentle vibration is amazing during the seashell!|
|There´s a perfect toy for this position and it´ll blow your mind - try the OPTIMALE VIBRATING DOUBLE C-RING to stimulate the penis shaft and testicles while doubly stimulating the clitoris and anus. Adding gentle anal stimulation when aroused by ongoing sexual activity is another level of ecstasy that cannot be contained.|
4. The valedictorian. Sort of like the seashell, this involves both legs in the air and in a V-for-victory shape. Some women scoff at this as a position for the clitoris but I´ve discovered the secret - again with other woman-on-the-bottom face-to-face positions, have him ride high and have him press down. Bring your arms behind him and hug him to you. He´ll get deeper in this position than in any other, and deep penetration with clitoral stimulation provides an intense orgasm. This sounds like it can be a challenge for some women but it rarely is with a little foreplay to relax beforehand. Hard to add additional clitoral stimulation here, but remember that the clitoris actually extends into all other parts of the erogenous zone.
|ROCKS OFF PETITE SENSATIONS PEARLS are a perfect accessory - easy to insert in this position and less likely to be uncomfortable to insert with amazing sensation.|
5. The pretzel. Here´s a position we've all probably tried but may not have done right, and it´s hard to explain. The woman is slightly on her side, with her male partner straddling the lower leg and the upper leg crossed over to his other side. Like the valedictorian, it can be challenging if you aren´t flexible, but a relaxed and aroused woman can achieve surprising positions!
|With the NU SENSUELLE SILICONE BULLET RING, a woman or her partner can further excite her no matter how difficult she is to reach, as long as there´s a free hand!|
These are far from the only positions to stimulate the clitoris. A woman with a clitoris closer to her vagina can enjoy doggy-style and similar positions with the same results. These positions though will be enjoyed by all sexually active women with attentive partners. The clitoris is the most powerfully sensual part in either the female or male body, so women, count those blessings once you start to lose count of orgasms!
Article by Sara at JOUJOU
Image Source: EMILY SCHIFF-SLATER at Women's Health Magazine