The thing is, being horny isn’t a bad thing. It’s not a taboo, it’s not ‘naughty’ and it certainly isn’t evil. In fact, being horny is a normal feeling that almost all of us experience much more than a handful of times in our lives. And there are several ways you can relieve your horniness that are healthy, constructive, and down-right pleasurable.
Regardless, if you’re one of those people who feel as though they’re constantly sexually aroused, and perhaps you feel like it could actually be a problem (it’s not!), here are a few reasons why you may be experiencing it.
1. A New Love Interest
During the beginning stages of a relationship, it’s all sunshine and roses. The ‘honeymoon’ phase is real, and people tend to stare into each other’s eyes longingly before proceeding to rip their clothes off.
Why do couples in a new relationship have sex all the time? Besides the fact that it’s new and exciting? Well, a neurotransmitter and a hormone dance around together, namely PEA (phenylethylamine) and dopamine (feeling loved up? You can thank dopamine), causing you to feel more sexually aroused and attracted to your partner. It’s completely normal.
2. Stress
There are a few vices out there that are a great distraction from stress. Things like alcohol, drugs, and sex are commonly used as tools to forget about things for a while. In this case, risky sexual behaviour could be because of excessive drinking, or simply to help relieve feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and boredom.
In this case, acting on sexual urges is probably not the best idea, and is one of the times in which we recommend using constructive ways to either deal with or distract yourself from your difficult circumstances. Using a sex toy is the safest way to alleviate stress and to curb your horniness!
3. Pregnancy
During pregnancy, especially the second trimester, women are prone to a slew of new and interesting feelings and cravings. They experience immense changes, mentally and physically, and it’s just basic biology to experience a higher sexual libido during certain parts of pregnancy.
For example, the hormones progesterone and estrogen are increased during pregnancy, blood flow is increased to the pelvic region, and the vagina becomes more lubricated. All a recipe for feeling horny. Trust us, this is completely normal.
Fun fact: sex toys are totally fine to use during pregnancy, and we recommend these three for their easiness of use, and ability to cause beautiful orgasms:
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4. Medication
Some medications have the ability to either increase or decrease one’s sexual drive. For example, certain kinds of antidepressants can repress sexual energy, but once the drug is not taken, the libido almost always returns to normal.
Then there are drugs that can intensify one’s sexual urges. Pills such as Trazodone, Wellbutrin, and Aripoprazole could produce a side effect of high libido (side effect or winning the sexy lottery, you decide).
5. Trauma
Trauma has a very big effect on the brain and can cause some to experience PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). In fact, childhood abuse is sometimes associated with hypersexuality.
There are different treatments available for those who have experienced trauma, like Cognitive Processing Therapy, which has proven to be successful, or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
Feeling horny because of PTSD is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as you are being safe in your sexual encounters. We do however encourage you to seek treatment for the underlying cause in order to live your best life.
Curb Your Horiness with These 7 New Toys
Fancy new ways to curb your horniness? Why not! It’s fun, it’s satisfying, and it ain’t hurtin’ no one…
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Svakom Hannes Neo Throbbing Masturbator The unparalleled pleasure with the Svakom Hannes Neo Throbbing Masturbator, the pinnacle of the Svakom Neo range. This sophisticated device combines heat and 7 intense auto-thrusting modes, focusing on the tip for a mind-blowing experience. App-enabled with FeelConnect3, hand over control to your partner for local or long-distance thrills. Link Hannes Neo to interactive porn or use webcam interactivity for a personalized adventure. |
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bVibe 360 Rotating & Vibrating Prostate Massager With an exquisite blend of innovation and sensation for bVibe 360 Rotating & Vibrating Prostate Massager, this sleek silicone wonder delivers simultaneous delight to your prostate and perianal zones with its 360° rotation settings and remote-controlled vibrations. Let the smooth rotations and multiple speeds caress your prostate, while the tapered base indulges in 6 tantalizing vibration patterns for a full-body orgasmic experience. The curved design ensures direct prostate stimulation, catering to beginners and advanced users alike. |
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Feeling horny all the time? Problem solved!
Article by:
Helena Lorimer at JOUJOU
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