For many of us, we work hard. We get up early, get ourselves to a job we probably don’t enjoy and do it so that we can afford to live (a comfortable life). Kind of a twisted cycle, indeed.
Luckily, there are a few pleasures in life that are free. And getting off is one of them!
So, just for today, let’s focus on the positive, and learn about the different ways in which a man can climax by having one or more erogenous zones stimulated, shall we?
First off, what’s an erogenous zone? It’s an area on the body that has heightened sensitivity. And when these areas are stimulated, it has the power to create intense sexual arousal and even orgasm.
The erogenous zones for men and women are mostly different, but there are some spots that are the same – such as the scalp, the nape of the neck, and the inner wrist.
Here are the top four erogenous zones exclusive to men, and how to work them in your favour!
- His Glans Penis
Well duh… by seeing the word ‘penis’ you’re immediately aware that it’ll bring a man a certain level of satisfaction. But the glans penis is a very specific part of the penis, and when it’s stimulated, you’ll definitely know all about it.
The glans penis is the head of the penis, and it has around 4,000 nerve endings, making it super sensitive to the touch. What does this mean? If you do more than touch, say – kiss, lick, or rub, you’ll be able to see your man in pure ecstasy.
Stimulating His Glans Penis
Wet your lips slightly and rub them over the head of his penis. Then, use the tip of your tongue to tease the rim. After this, place your mouth over the head, and swirl your tongue around it.
- His Butt Cheeks
His butt cheeks aren’t just great for admiring – they’re actually a sweet spot to consider in the sac too. To get his motor running, strike his butt! Yes, you read correctly! Spanking and grabbing actually cause the entire area to be stimulated in a very sexual way.
Stimulating His Butt Cheeks
There are so many ways for you to get back there! You could be in missionary position, giving you access to a tight squeeze or a little spank. Or, if you’re into playing around with BDSM sexual props and acts, punish him delectably for being a very dirty boy!
- His Frenulum
Found on the underside of the penis, the frenulum is a piece of skin that’s slightly elastic. Where the head of the penis meets the shaft? Yes, right there.
Did you know that this spot is the primary cause of many a man’s orgasm? All the more reasons to get to work…
Stimulating His Frenulum
Use your hands, use your mouth – this area is so sensitive, that it really doesn’t matter which method you choose.
One technique is to give him a hand job while using your thumb to graze the frenulum. During a blowjob, give your tongue all the freedom in the world to this orgasm-inducing area.
- His Prostate
Some men love it, others strictly forbid it – but when they receive anal stimulation, magic happens.
This is because the prostate, a walnut-sized gland that can be found between the bladder and the penis, is largely responsible for that little spasm a man experiences when they ejaculate. And the only way to get there is through.
But the truth is, there are so many nerve endings inside the anus that, even if this wonderful gland isn’t stimulated, there’s a big chance he’ll feel pleasure.
Stimulating His Prostate
The prostate is a bit difficult to find, but once you find the gold, it’ll all be worth it.
To do so, insert your finger about an inch inside of him and keep it along the front wall until you feel something that feels like a walnut.
Once found, you can stroke the area with your fingertips (not nails), or you can use the “come-hither” signal. We suggest trying both to see which he responds to best!
So, are you ready to get down tonight? You’re very welcome!
Helena Lorimer, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert at JOUJOU