A Handy Guide for Picking the Perfect Sex Toy

A Handy Guide for Picking the Perfect Sex Toy

We all have our favourite sex toys. The time-tested, self-approved batch of sex toys that you keep in a special place tucked away for frequent use.

What? YOU DON’T?

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Here are some tips on toys if you haven’t had them in a long time, never owned a toy, or are exploring other regions of your body for which you don’t have a toy. Some questions you might want to ask yourself when buying sex toys should be: Who? What? When? Where? And why? Keep track of your answers so you’ll have an easier time picking things online.

Who do you want to stimulate? Is it you, someone else, or both? Who you want to stimulate will make a difference significantly in the toy you may want. Every person gets turned on in different ways, so what you like may not do for the rest. If you plan on buying a toy for someone else, use their preferences as the “who, what, when, where, and whys” of sex toys.

What kind of stimulation do you want? You could go for adjectives like hard, medium, soft, vibrating, sucking, and spinning. Some folks like a softer dildo while others like them hard, some like a combination of hard and vibrating while others prefer a spinning, vibrating dildo. Everyone’s tastes are different; this will definitely help you in narrowing down your list of options from the huge variety of adult toys on the market today.

Where do you want stimulation? Identify whether you want to focus on the vagina, clit, anus and rectum, testicles, or the penis, and is it solo play or mutually beneficial - MM (male-male), WW (female-female), or MW (male-female)? Different couples require different toys for mutual stimulation. Keep that in mind if picking a sex toy for your lover.

When are you planning to stimulate?

  • When you are out in public?
  • When you are at home alone?
  • When you are on a sleepover date?
  • When you are in the water?

How do you plan on using your toy? Is it for orgasm or just arousal?

Here are some suggestions for some combinations that you may have picked. Once you have your answers written down it will be easy to find a toy. Just read the descriptions and you’ll know whether that particular toy is what you are looking for. Now, go out and have some fun!

Our Recommended Toys

Shop JOUJOU: Lovense Hush 2 Vibrating Butt Plug

Lovense Hush 2 Vibrating Butt Plug

Are you the adventurous one? The Lovense Hush 2, is the ultimate butt plug for the adventurous at heart. With unrivalled power, this vibrating plug will leave you trembling with pleasure every time. Thanks to its Bluetooth connectivity, you can enjoy hands-free fun wherever you go – whether discreetly in public or the comfort of your own home.

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Zalo Queen Set G-Spot Pulsewave Vibrator With Suction Sleeve

Hit two spots in just one toy with Zalo Queen a luxurious vibrator that offers intense G-spot stimulation or clitoral satisfaction with the suction sleeve. It has vibrating motors that provide varied sensations, Bluetooth connectivity and SWAROVSKI crystal accents that add elegance.

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Dillio 7 Inches Slim Dildo

This Slim Dildo from Pipedream's boutique-friendly line is crafted to hit all the right spots, this dildo offers versatility with its super-strong suction cup base for wall-banging fun and compatibility with strap-on harnesses. With an insertable length of 7.3 inches and a width of 1.6 inches, the Dillio 7 Inches Slim Dildo promises endless pleasure and exploration.

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Le Wand Rechargeable Personal Massager

Explore your erogenous zones with the Le Wand Rechargeable Personal Massager – your luxurious companion. With 10 distinctive vibration speeds and 20 patterns, this cordless massager delivers powerful and penetrating vibrations. Designed to delight your external erogenous zones like the clitoris, vulva, and other external areas of your body, it promises an experience like no other.

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Fun Factory Cobra Libre II 2 Vibrating Male Masturbator

How about for males? We got you a Fun Factory Cobra Libre II! This innovative toy surrounds the tip of the penis, delivering thrilling vibrations directly to the most sensitive area. With two powerful motors and intuitive one-touch buttons, you can easily navigate through 11 vibration patterns, from gentle waves to ecstatic speeds. Forget the need for hand movements just simply indulge with this breathtaking sensations.

Shop JOUJOU: B-Vibe Rocker Weighted Prostate Plug

B-Vibe Rocker Weighted Prostate Plug

What about for P-spot? The B-Vibe Rocker is designed for intense prostate stimulation. With its ergonomic shape and weighted design, this plug offers targeted pressure and pleasure. Simply sit on it to swivel internally and explore new sensations.


This guide will help you start using your sex toy right away and we know you will find that you are satisfied with your choices!

Article by Sara at JOUJOU

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