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A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging Pleasure

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A BEGINNER’S GUIDE TO PEGGING PLEASURE

So, you’re intrigued or thinking about pegging? That’s understandable, as this sexual practice not only creates physical pleasure for some but also, psychological. But first, what is pegging?

Pegging is the act of a woman performing penetrative anal sex on a man using a strap-on dildo. This is not to be confused with homosexual vaginal penetration using a (strap-on) dildo, yet the act could be done between two homosexual women granted that the strap-on dildo is inserted in the anus.

In other words, pegging is simply: anal sex via a strap-on.

And for those who are keen on giving it a try for the first time, here are invaluable tips to guide you in your new sexual adventure.

 

Talk It Out

One does not simply decide to try pegging without having a conversation about it beforehand. Have you used a strap-on before? Are you going to be the partner receiving the penetration? Does it make you feel excited or nervous? What are your big no’s? These things are important to decipher before going in without a plan.

Additionally, some men may have mixed or negative feelings about receiving anal penetration as they may associate it with being homosexual or may feel emasculated. The truth is however, that the anus is packed with sensitive nerve-endings, which means that anal sex can actually be an absolute pleasure without the need to have a crisis about your sexual orientation or general self-image.

 

Prepare

Then, one does not simply decide to try pegging without preparing the body, or rather booty, and toy(s) beforehand.

So step one, make sure that you clean your chosen toy before use (FYI: here is a handy guide on how to clean your sexy toys).

Step two, when it comes to prepping the booty, many people opt for an anal enema just to make sure that there aren’t any surprises during your tryst. If you are planning to do this, make sure it’s done at least one hour before. Additionally, some precaution material is also not a bad idea, such as laying down a towel.

 

Suit Up

Now’s the time for the partner who will wear the strap-on dildo, to get ready. Make sure that you’ve got yourself gear that feels good and is the right size and shape. Don’t forget to have enough lubrication for maximum success and pleasure, and if you’d like, condoms.

You’ll find that, simply wearing the gear may be quite the turn-on, before the deed has even begun.

 

Get Comfortable

To initiate your new sexual experience, start off slow. If you’ve ever participated in anal play or anal sex, you’ll know that one cannot simply go hard and fast. Start by stimulating the area in order to relax the body. Spend a considerable amount of time on this, as feeling ready and comfortable is key to having a great experience.

 

Go for It

Then, once both partners are adequately relaxed and ready, start by pressing the tip of the dildo against the anus. Again, don’t force it with fast and sudden movements, but rather gently allow the dildo to go inside. When retracting – again, no fast or sudden movement, but slow thrusts that can be adjusted according to comfort level. Allow the one receiving to set the pace and to verbalise any instructions. Also, make sure to have lube at-hand to use when needed.

 

The Extra’s

While pegging is the act of anal penetration via a strap-on dildo, this does not mean that additional sexual and sensual acts are not necessary. For the receiver to have their back or legs massaged during an adventure only adds to the fun. Or, if you both feel comfortable, a hand job is also an option whilst playing.

 

Psychological Factors

Aside from the sexual and physical pleasure that pegging can bring for both partners, there’s also a psychological factor associated with this play. And that is, the bending of gender roles.

With traditional gender norms being a male penetrating a female with a penis, and the stereotype being that men are the more masculine and stronger sex, the act of pegging challenges those norms and flips them on their side. When the roles are reversed, a woman could possibly feel a new or different sense of power whilst wearing a strap-on, experiencing what it may be like to have a penis and to penetrate a partner.

For that reason, pegging is a great way for both parties to experience various mental and physical changes that are perhaps new to them, and to connect their bodies in such a way that has never been done before.

With that, we wish you tons of fun and pleasure exploring various toys with and on your partner, and enjoying new and interesting sensations that’ll definitely spice things up in the bedroom.

Article by: 
Helena at JOUJOU

 

 

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