A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging Pleasure

So, you’re intrigued or thinking about pegging? Yay you! Welcome, first time peggers.

But as you start to think about this kind of play, you’re probably wondering how to prepare. No worries! We’ve compiled a nifty guide on how to prepare for pegging play, as well as some other info that’ll be invaluable for your experience.

An Introduction to Pegging for Beginners

For starters, this sexual adventure will be unlike anything you’ve ever experienced, in a good way, for a number of reasons!

But before we go into the many benefits of pegging, let’s look at an actual definition so that you’re up to speed!

What Is Pegging?

Pegging is the act of a woman performing penetrative anal sex on a man using a strap on dildo. 

This is not to be confused with two lesbian women engaging in vaginal penetration using a (strap-on) dildo. Pegging could involve two lesbian women using a strap on dildo that is inserted in the anus however.

In other words, pegging play is simply: anal sex via a strap-on.

And for those who are keen on giving it a try for the first time, here are a few invaluable tips to guide you during your new sexual adventure.

Benefits of Pegging

Are there any benefits to pegging? Indeed there are. There are a few physical and psychological rewards that come with pegging pleasure… 

For one, anal play, such as anal penetration and anal sex, can bring about huge orgasms. 

This is because it stimulates the many sensitive nerve endings in the anus, creating a plethora of pleasure. Not just that, but it also indirectly stimulates other erogenous zones (such as the G-spot and A-spot in vulva owners, and allows for prostate stimulation in penis owners). 

But there’s also a psychological aspect to pegging that can be entirely thrilling. You see, when one engages in pegging play, there’s a bending of gender roles.

Traditional gender norms dictate that a male penetrates a female with their penis. This too leads to the stereotype that men are the more masculine and stronger sex. But when pegging is involved, these gender norms are challenged, and basically turned on their head. 

When the roles are reversed, partners can engage in a new or different style of power play whilst wearing a strap-on, experiencing what it may be like to have a penis and to penetrate a partner.

For that reason, pegging is a great way for both parties to feel various mental and physical changes that are perhaps new to them, and to connect with their bodies in such a way that they never have before.

And now, moving onto the fun stuff… how to prepare for pegging!

How to Prepare for Pegging in 6 Simple Steps

1. Talk It Out

One does not simply decide to try pegging without having a conversation about it beforehand. Have you used a strap-on before? Are you going to be the partner receiving the penetration? Does it make you feel excited or nervous? What are your big no’s? These things are important questions to discuss before pegging.

Additionally, some men may have mixed or negative feelings about receiving anal penetration as they may associate it with being homosexual or may feel emasculated. The truth is however, that the anus is packed with sensitive nerve-endings, which means that anal sex can actually be an absolute pleasure without the need to have a crisis about your sexual orientation or general self-image.

2. Prepare

Then, one does not simply decide to try pegging without preparing the body, or rather booty, and toy(s) beforehand.

So step one, make sure that you clean your chosen toy before use.

Step two, when it comes to prepping the booty, many people opt for an anal enema just to make sure that there aren’t any surprises during your tryst. If you are planning to do this, make sure it’s done at least one hour before. If you don’t want to do this, we recommend having one or more bowel movements as close to your pegging adventure as possible. Additionally, some precaution material is also not a bad idea, such as laying down a towel.

Step three, if you’re new to pegging play, we suggest doing a bit of anal training. This involves using a small butt plug at first so that you can get used to the sensation of anal play. Once you’re comfortable with a small butt plug, you can move onto a medium size, then a larger size. 

3. Suit Up

Now’s the time for the partner who will wear the strap on dildo, to get ready. Make sure that you’ve got yourself the right gear that feels good and is the right size and shape. Don’t forget to have enough lubrication for maximum success and pleasure, and if you’d like, condoms.

You’ll find that simply wearing the gear may be quite the turn-on, before the deed has even begun.

4. Get Comfortable

To initiate your new sexual experience, start off slow. If you’ve ever participated in anal play or anal sex, you’ll know that one cannot simply go hard and fast. Start by stimulating the area in order to relax the body. Spend a considerable amount of time on this, as feeling ready and comfortable is key to having a great experience.

5. Go for it

Then, once both partners are adequately relaxed and ready, start by pressing the tip of the dildo against the anus. Again, don’t force it with fast and sudden movements, but rather gently allow the dildo to go inside. When retracting – again, no fast or sudden movement, but slow thrusts that can be adjusted according to comfort level. Allow the one receiving to set the pace and to verbalise any instructions. Also, make sure to have lube on-hand to use when needed. 

6. The Extra’s

While pegging is the act of anal penetration via a strap on dildo, this does not mean that additional sexual and sensual acts are not necessary. For the receiver to have their back or legs massaged during an adventure only adds to the fun. Or, if you both feel comfortable, a hand job is also an option whilst playing.

Recommended Products for Pegging

	b-Vibe Classic Enema As we mentioned, an enema can be used before you enjoy some pegging. The b-Vibe Classic Enema is a four-piece set that comes with step-by-step instruction, making it easy to use and perfect for beginners, and it is made from 100 percent body-safe materials.
	Intimate Earth Green Tea Tree Oil Foaming Toy Cleaner After all the fun has been had, it’s important to clean your toy thoroughly to remove the chance of any bacteria build up. The Intimate Earth Green Tea Foaming Toy Cleaner is versatile, as it can be used on plastic, silicone, glass, and stainless steel, and it is infused with natural ingredients with an antibacterial agent, making it safe for your toy and your skin.
	Intimate Earth Soothe Anti-bacterial Anal Water-Based Lubricant   Whether you're a newbie or an anal enthusiast, using a generous amount of lube is imperative during anal play. The Intimate Earth Soothe Anti-bacterial Anal Lubricant is a premium anal lube that contains natural ingredients, and anti-bacterial extracts. It’s also safe to ingest, so you know you’re in safe hands with this comfortable and enjoyable anal lube.
	b-Vibe Lubricant Applicator Set Have all the fun without getting your hands wet! Using the b-Vibe Lubricant Applicator Set means that you can simply fill the syringe with your chosen lube, insert it into the anal cavity, then press the lube inside for an effortless bout of slippery play without any of the mess.
	Intimate Earth Daring for Men 30ML Anal Relaxing Serum To make things even more comfortable for you during your anal tryst, the Intimate Earth Anal Relaxing Serum for Men simply relaxes the anus using natural ingredients instead of numbing it. This allows for more comfortable penetration. Simply apply, relax, and have fun! Remember to also check out the INTIMATE EARTH Adventure for Women 30ml ANAL RELAXING SERUM.

 

And now, some pegging sex toy suggestions to use during your pegging pleasure… 

Pegging Beginner Products

	Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition The Pegger Your time to experiment is now! And the Fetish Fantasy The Pegger is a slim, jelly dildo that’s perfectly-sized for your first anal encounter. It has a little curve that’ll stimulate all the right spots, has four durable nylon straps that are easy to adjust, and a plush-lined harness that stays in-place no matter how big or hard you decide to go.
	Fun Factory Limba Flex S Flexible Silicone Dildo What’s the best part about the Fun Factory Limba Flex S? It is, as the name suggests, entirely flexible! You can move it into any shape you want, whether it’s straight or curved, or even at a different angle that gets you all revved up. It’s thin and small, perfect for beginners, has a flat base that can be strapped into a harness, and can even be used during solo play as it has a suction cup.
	Fun Factory Limba Flex M Flexible Silicone Dildo Just like the above mentioned pegging dildo, the Limba Flex has all the same magic… except it’s a tad bit bigger. When you’re ready to move up in size, Fun Factory has you all sorted!
	Fun Factory Strap & Bound Harness This pleasure product is the world’s first harness made out of soft denim that’s 100 percent vegan! It’s a comfortable jean harness that buckles up… all that’s needed is for you to combine your favourite dildo with it. What’s also great is that it’s machine washable! So you can have some good, clean fun for years to come.
	Dillio Platinum Curious Five 5 Inch Silicone Dildo Made with platinum-cured silicone for the highest degree of purity, the Dillio Silicone Dildo is strong, durable, flexible, and superior when it comes to play time. It has a suction cup for solo play, but also works with a Body Dock (see below) or other universal strap-on harness. It’s great for users of all levels, and has an irresistible smooth surface that’s non-sticky for all kinds of bliss.
	Dillio Platinum Body Dock Strap-On Harness As you’ve just read, we mentioned the Body Dock. That is, the Dillio Platinum Body Dock Strap-On Harness. This is a universal harness system that’s comfortable and easy to use. So easy, in fact, that all you need to do is attach the suction cup of your favourite dildo or vibrator to the silicone docking plate. For that reason, there’s no need for extra rings or snaps, making it a useful pegging must-have.

 

Pegging Expert Products

	Fun Factory Share Lite Silicone Strapless Strap-On A double dildo that’s all about pegging pleasure. The Fun Factory Share Lite Strapless Strap-On has pinpointed stimulation on both ends, which means that it can be worn inside of both users, who then use their muscles to keep it in-place. It’s lightweight, making it even easier to use, is anatomically-shaped with an adjustable hinge, and can be a thrill unlike no other for those who want to play together.
	NS Novelties Shi Shi Midnight Rider Strapless Strap-On Forget about buckles, belts, and other bits and pieces. The Shi Shi Midnight Rider Strapless Strap-On will take you on a ride sans any worries. It’s a double dildo with wireless remote control, so you can fool around effortlessly with your partner (or solo, if that’s how you’d like to enjoy this blissful pleasure product). It’s made of smooth silicone, is safe to use with all lubricants, and has some powerful vibrations for new dimensions of euphoria.
	Her Royal Harness Me2 Remote Rumbler A remote-controlled dual-motor probe made for your very best pegging play adventure. It has a gorgeously curved shaft, a tickler base, and 10 different vibration patterns. It’s also waterproof for a splash of naughty fun, and can be used hands-free thanks to its versatile vibrator shape and contoured base. An added bonus? It comes with a memory chip inside of it, so it’ll remember the last function you used and take you straight back there when you crave it.

With that, we wish you tons of fun and pleasure exploring various toys with and on your partner, and hope that you revel in all the new and interesting sensations that’ll definitely spice things up in the bedroom.