Takeaway: Whether it’s solo play or impressing your partner, sex toys spice up any old sexual routine and are a healthy part of male sexuality.
Staring off into the sea of dildos that is your average sex shop, it’s an easy misconception that sex toys are mostly sold to women, when the industry is actually split down the middle rather evenly. But whether it’s for your alone time, or a special surprise when a date comes by, why not keep a toy chest of your very own? Start with these 5 basics for the modern man.
Before you jump to Viagra, consider the cock ring. A simple little band brings a whole new world of pleasure – solo or partnered – and that world contains harder, longer erections with heightened orgasms.
Try out all sorts of variations; adjustable leather or metal rings are advanced choices once you’ve figured out your sizing. Stretchy silicone is always the safe choice, especially for beginners, and these can include fun features like vibrators and rabbit attachments.
What partner wouldn’t like the added fun of you pulling out a small vibe to use on him or her during sex? Having a small vibrator for clitoral stimulation is a nice touch, bonus if it’s enough for a bit of penetration during foreplay, or even used anally for some truly risqué fun.
Use it for yourself as well – no shame in a bit of vibration around your package for a bit of playfulness, or get an anal-safe vibe for some P-spot action.
The We-Vibe Tango is a universal favourite for its compact nature and impressive rumble!
The dildo of male masturbation, Fleshlight really mainstreamed the world of male masturbators. Whether it’s something for you-time, or you’re keeping form during a dry spell, there are unlimited possibilities for these sexual simulators, especially when paired with other products. Try with a cock ring or penis pump to feel like you’re prepping for a sexual triathlon. What more is there to say? Lube up and choose an orifice!
TENGA is great for their gender & orifice neutral masturbators, and they’ve delivered even more value in the form of their Reusable Vacuum Cup, with superior suction and easy-to-clean cup!
Leather straps, Velcro cuffs, ropes, furry handcuffs – whatever your style, we’re sure she’ll be appreciative of this in-the-moment treat whether you want to tie her down or be restrained yourself. If you’re worried about being a bit too intimidating with the full-on bondage kit, just start out with a discreet rope or furry cuffs to ease into it)
Everything you need to reenact a Grey’s situation, with the Fifty Shades Darker Advanced Desire Kit including a blindfold, rope, bondage tape, bullet vibe, butt plug, cock ring, and mini paddle to punish naughty bottoms.
Come on, guys. It might be uncomfortable to talk about, but it’s time you explored this mind-blowing pleasure zone. There’s something so passé (and a little unmanly) about not allowing yourself to experience the pleasure you could get from this, just for the sake of a silly taboo.
This toy is all about you (though the orgasm from wearing it during sex might make you share), and you can ease in with different levels. A small butt plug is your basic beginner’s model, but add a little vibration and you’ll be rocking your own world. If you want extreme pleasure, then go right for the “O” with a prostate massager in hundreds of different shapes and varieties. Your prostate is equal to a woman’s clitoris in terms of pleasure, so man up, grab the lube and thank us later.
Article by Charlotte at JOUJOU