Yeehaw! Giddy up, cowgirl! Or shall we say, reverse cowgirl?
Are you one of those women who simply adore the reverse cowgirl sex position? Who isn’t! It’s such a powerful and feminine position, offering the chance to really take control of one’s sexual experience!
And if you’re a man, is there something entirely alluring about having a woman on-top, buttocks in your face, thrusting her way into complete euphoria whilst in the reverse cowgirl position?
You’re not alone…
How to Master the Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position to Make It Feel Incredible
There are millions of guys and gals all over the world who agree that reverse cowgirl position is entirely erotic.
But why is that so? Why does reverse cowgirl feel so good? It’s definitely a question worth looking into… so we did!
Let’s explore the blissful reverse cowgirl sex position in all its glory including how to practice it, why it feels so good, and some of our top tips to making it feel even better.
Let’s get into the basics. Ready to go on a bit of a giddy up?
How do you practice the reverse cowgirl sex position?
The reverse cowgirl sex position is a variation of the cowgirl position. It’s a sex position that allows the person on top to have most of the control.
FYI: The cowgirl sex position is when the giver of penetration lies down with their legs straight, and the person receiving penetration will kneel on top of them with their legs out to either side of the person lying down. In this way both partners face each other.
What’s the reverse cowgirl sex position then? It’s essentially the same thing, except in reverse.
The reverse cowgirl position is when the person receiving penetration will sit on top of their partner, but instead of being face-to-face, they’ll have their face away toward their partner’s feet.
What makes reverse cowgirl feel so good?
The reverse cowgirl sex position feels extremely good for both partners. Some of these reasons may vary, depending on the giver and the receiver of penetration, but all in all, it’s a sex position that allows deep penetration, which can be magical for all parties involves.
Why reverse cowgirl feels so good for women:
- It gives women the chance to take full control over the speed, rhythm, and depth of the penetration
- It’s a sex position that allows for G-Spot stimulation, which is an incredible area five to eight cm inside of the vagina, and has the power to give intense orgasms
- It is less intimidating or intimate, as there is no eye contact involved. This may increase a woman’s confidence
- A woman can stimulate their clitoris (either manually or with a clit sex toy) during reverse cowgirl sex, which is not only an added bonus but also increases the likelihood of orgasm
Why reverse cowgirl feels so good for men:
- Men in this position have the ability to relax and allow the woman to take over
- The partner on top can stimulate their balls during reverse cowgirl sex
- Men have a great view of their partner’s behind, and gives them the opportunity to grab it
- It gives men the chance to enjoy deeper penetration
But enough with all of our praise. What do the experts have to say about why the reverse cowgirl sex position feels so good?
“For starters, it's a power position,” says Nan Wise, PhD, a licensed psychotherapist and certified sex therapist. "You have a lot of leverage for moving and controlling the angle and movement of your pelvis. It's a super-powerful feminine pose."
And, according to Susan Kellogg-Spadt, PhD, director of the Female Sexual Medicine at the Centre for Pevlic Medicine:
"[Partners on the bottom] tend to prefer it because of the depth and the visual of looking at partner's behind. [Partners on top] can enjoy it by incorporating a foreword lean, not sitting up straight and maximizing anterior fornix (G-spot) friction."
Basically, it’s all about those sexy sensations, feeling powerful, and the incredible views!
Our top tips for the best reverse cowgirl sex feeling
If you think the reverse cowgirl sex position feels amazing now, we dare you to practice some of these tips! Indeed, there are things you can do to experience the best reverse cowgirl sex feeling.
Tip 1: Pillows!
If the partner on top adds a pillow under their knees, it’ll aid in a whole nother level of comfort. Or, if you aren’t a fan of being on your knees, you could stand and simply bend at the knees in a crouching position. These two modifications can enhance your sexual pleasure to make the most out of your reverse cowgirl position.
Tip 2: Lube!
Lube makes everything better, period. That wet, slippery feeling only adds to levels of excitement, so when you add lube into the mix, your partner can thrust and glide on the giver of penetration with ease and even more erotic excitement. Lube also reduces the chance of friction, allowing for more of those amazing sensations.
Tip 3: Clitoral Stimulation
For many women, clitoral stimulation is needed in order to climax. Luckily, as we mentioned, the reverse cowgirl position allows for some heavenly clit rubbing. We are in love with clitoral sex toys, so why not treat yourself to one to make your intimate couples play even more spicy?
Tip 4: Mix it Up!
While we’re big fans of the reverse cowgirl sex position, we also love the fact that it allows partners to get into other sex positions fairly effortlessly. For example, the Amazon sex position and the lotus sex position can be experienced with a simple switch up. No fumbling.
Tip 5: Team Work
Even though the reverse cowgirl sex position gives the woman most of the control, it is still all about team work. For example, it is easier for one’s penis to slip out accidentally whilst in this position. This isn’t very fun, sure, but it could also lead to potential penis injuries! Working together means having the person on the bottom holding onto the hips of the person on top of them, just to make sure things don’t… slip out.
So, cowboys and cowgirls, gather up your saddles and get ready to enjoy the sincere ecstasy that is the reverse cowgirl sex position.
There’s so much fun to be had when two partners really embrace new positions and learn how to maximize them. So, here’s to all the sexy feels and amazing orgasms that the reverse cowgirl position brings you and your partner!
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