People may think that men are strange beings and that trying to decipher what they want is virtually impossible. In actuality, it’s pretty simple… give them good head and they’ll be eating out (of the palm of your hand).
Which is why we’ve gathered 12 excellent tips on how to give the perfect blowjob. Use these and you can be sure that he’ll be coming again and again.
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Deepthroat: It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and there are many folk out there who have a pretty intense gag reflex. But many men actually find said-reflex oddly erotic! But that’s neither here nor there. To deepthroat, stick your tongue out and go as deep as you can, and hold it there. And because your mouth will be preoccupied, breathe through your nose, and don’t forget to swallow as often as possible.
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Take it Slow: Whether you enjoy giving head or not, appearing in a rush is a boner killer. Take your time, put in that extra oomph, and you’ll be rewarded with a very satisfied man.
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Tease Him: When you start sucking him, try not to go for gold straight away. There’s something so delightfully erotic about the tease. Kiss, stroke, and lick sensually around the head, the length, the balls. And when he’s super into it, work your mouth magic.
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Fake it Until You Make It: As mentioned, even if you’re not a blowjob enthusiast, showing interest and confidence is just as sexy as the sensation itself. Fake it until you make it!
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Eye Contact: Nine out of 10 men will agree that when a woman looks at him in the eye during a blowjob, they get even more turned on. Show some sensuality and passion in your eyes and it’ll make a big difference.
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Get Handsy: A blowjob is not just about using your mouth. The goal is to use a hand or two and your mouth at the same time. Your hand is basically an extension of your mouth in this case.
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Spit: Sloppy blowjobs are a favourite among men worldwide. Don’t be afraid to use a lot of saliva whilst pleasuring. Some even like it when you spit directly on it (think every porno ever made). In short, use saliva in abundance.
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Swallow: If you notice that he’s getting more and more aroused, and possibly ready to come, don’t slow down. Keep going at the same speed, if not faster, and try to incorporate that deepthroat action we talked about until he comes. If you want to swallow but not sure you’ll enjoy the taste, the trick would be to have him come when he’s deep inside your mouth. In this way, you won’t necessarily taste anything, but more so feel his warm load going down your throat.
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Unpredictability: Even though these tricks are near fool-proof, you don’t want to stick to one way the entire time. Use your lips and tongue to create different shapes, like circles, then up and down, using your hand, hands, go faster, then slower. Play around and see what works best.
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Moans & Groans: A few naughty moans can go a long way. And if you’re into it, a bit of dirty talk can push him right over the edge. “Do you like watching me suck your big tasty cock?” Something to that effect.
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Ball Action or No? Remember that every guy is different, so the trick is to discover and get to know his penis. Show enthusiasm in trying new things to see what he likes best. For some, licking or lightly touching the balls is a heaven-sent. For others, it’s off the table. Practice makes perfect.
- Keep Going: Once he’s come (and isn’t too sensitive), you can continue by keeping his penis in your mouth and using your hand to hold it for a little while longer. This will prolong the wonderful feeling, and not make it end abruptly.
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Are you ready to give him the blowjob of his life? Trust us, if you keep him coming, he will keep coming!
Article by:
Helena Lorimer at JOUJOU
For “tease him”, I find it works best for everyone if he’s totally shaved down there. It’s more sensitive for him, and I can lick all around his penis, scrotum, perineum completely unrestricted. He likes when I do some slow sucking on each of his balls.
The “keep going” part can get a little dangerous with his movements! But I love sucking every last drop of cum out and having his penis go soft in my mouth as he’s in post orgasm bliss. Like job well done!
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