Are dildos safe for beginners? Do they come in different sizes? What's the difference between a dildo and a vibrator? You'll learn all this and more in our comprehensive dildo beginners guide.
Why Dildos Are a Great Starting Point For Beginners
Dildos are the perfect first toy for sex toy beginners, and a truly versatile option for both internal and external stimulation. From realistic, flesh like dildos to stunning glass masterpieces, dildos are available in hundreds of sizes, colours and materials. From low cost, entry level dildos to advanced, high end sex toys, your dildo is the trusty workhorse of your toy chest. Whatever your personal preferences, there really is a dildo out there for everyone.
Understanding the Basics: What Exactly Is a Dildo?
How They Differ from Vibrators
While some dildos vibrate and some vibrators are designed for penetrative sex, the primary functions of dildos and vibrators are different.
The main difference between a dildo and a vibrator is that dildos are primarily a phallic shaped toy intended for penetrative play, and vibrators are toys specifically designed to vibrate, often with clitoral stimulation in mind. Many dildos do not vibrate, but they may be designed specifically for G spot stimulation or to target other erogenous zones.
What makes a dildo one of the best sex toys in your arsenal is its versatility. A non-vibrating dildo can be easily used with a bullet vibrator or a vibrating cock ring to provide a similar sensation to the classic rabbit vibrator. A non-vibrating dildo will never need to be recharged, and they're also easy to keep clean.
Materials and Safety 101
When it comes to any sex toy entering your body, it's important to have a good understanding of what materials to look for, and how to make sure your experience is safe and sexy.
Look for body safe materials
As dildos are designed for internal use, it's especially important that they are made from body safe materials. Body safe silicone, glass, stainless steel and ABS plastic are ideal sex toy materials. Porous materials should be avoided, particularly when it comes to anal penetration, as porous materials can harbour bacteria and be difficult to clean.
Use the right lubricant
An often overlooked element of dildo ownership is lubricant. When it comes to any type of penetration, lubricant is your trusty sidekick! Something many people don't know, is that the type of lubricant you use can have a big impact on your experience and the longevity of your toys. Using silicone lubricant with silicone toys can degrade the material over time. A high quality, water based lubricant is an excellent choice for silicone toys. If you're planning to use your dildo in the shower or bathtub, silicone based lubricants used with a glass or stainless steel toy can help you stay wet in all the right ways!
Keep your toys clean
Keeping your sex toys clean is essential. Use a good quality toy cleaner to keep your toys squeaky clean between use. Store your dildo and other sex toys in a dedicated toy bag or toy chest in a cool dark space free of dust and direct sunlight.
Treat anal play seriously
When it comes to using your dildos for anal play, there are a few extra things to be aware of:
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Ideally, have one dildo for exploring anal play and another for vaginal penetration.
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If you're using the same dildo for vaginal and anal penetration, using a fresh condom on your dildo between activities can help to prevent infections or injury.
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Whether it's a butt plug or a dildo, make sure anything going in your backdoor has a flared base. Trust us, you do NOT want anything getting... stuck.
Types of Dildos to Explore
Classic Dildos
Master the basics with our range of beginner-friendly dildos. Simple and effective, a classic dildo is the little black dress of your toy chest, it never goes out of style.
Realistic Dildos
Enjoy a realistic dildo with a lifelike feel and design. It's just like the real thing.
G-Spot Dildos
Unlike most sex toys, G-spot dildos are curved for targeted g-spot stimulation.
Dual-Ended Dildos
Enjoy dual penetrative sex on your own body, or share with your partner for intense new sensations with a versatile dual ended dildo.
Strap-On Dildos & Harnesses
Partnered sex just got a little hotter! Tease and please your partner with our range of strap-on dildos and harnesses.
Suction-Cup Dildos
Keep your hands free for clitoral stimulation and body exploration fun with a sturdy suction cup dildo.
Glass & Steel Dildos
Hypoallergenic, smooth to the touch and easy to clean, glass and steel dildos give you laser precision and the option for exciting temperate play.
Vibrating Dildos
Vibrating dildos are the perfect hybrid sex toy for those who want more.
Can Dildos Be For Men too? Prostate Play & More
Can dildos be for men too? Of course! In fact, your favourite penis owner has a g spot of their own... the prostate! The anus is lined with sensitive nerve endings. Prostate stimulation with a specially designed prostate massager can provide intense stimulation and take your mans sex life to the next level!
How to Choose the Perfect First Dildo For You
Choosing a dildo is an extremely personal decision, however there are some common questions to keep in mind:
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Size: Are you a size queen looking for a challenge? Or do you prefer a finger sized toy for just a little something extra? When in doubt, start small and work your way up.
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Purpose: A non-vibrating dildo is an excellent low cost option (and discreet if you have roommates). Non-vibrating dildos can be used for internal stimulation as well as external massaging. If you like some vibration with your penetration, consider adding a vibrating cock ring to your dildo or choosing a vibrating dildo with inbuilt vibration patterns.
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Features: If you enjoy your sexual pleasure in a shower or bathtub, consider a dildo with a suction base for some hands free fun! A double ended dildo can be an exciting challenge for anal play enthusiasts. Remote controlled vibrating dildos can add an exciting new element to partnered play.
In Closing
Dildos are one of the best sex toys for beginners thanks to the huge variety of different shapes, sizes and features available. Experiment with different dildos to discover what really turns you on, keep your sex toys clean and most importantly, enjoy your pleasure journey!
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