Look into some fun toys to use with your partner (our favourites are below), and purchase some ingestible, water-based Sliquid H2O Natural. Usable with any toys and condoms or dental dams, it pours out as a gel, but then becomes more liquid with friction! Purchase some dental dams for oral and some Hex condoms for when you move on to sex afterward. At playtime, wash your hands, trim and file your nails, and rinse out your mouth - there is a definite difference in sensation with a fresh mouth.

Here is the difficult part, but it's mostly about rhythm, consistency, and listening to your partner. This will vary from person to person, but in general you can start by flattening your tongue for full coverage at a lower pressure, and alternate with the tip of your tongue for more localised attention. Gradually build up from there and try different tongue motions such as swirling, pulsing, or waving. Pay attention to what makes your partner react most, but alternate it with other movements to keep it from being too repetitive or making it boring. If you purchased sex toys then you can introduce them at the beginning or in the final lap! It's a good thing if your partner is giving you orders, as it means she is interested and engaged in the activity, not just waiting for it to end. When she orders you not to stop or says “right there” this doesn't mean to add pressure and speed, keep the consistency because you are hitting the mark! Remember to add in dirty talk if she's into that, and show enthusiasm too.
But wait, what toys can you pair with oral? The great thing about it is you can have foreplay toys, bondage toys, butt plugs, and more! Literally choose from your favourite JOUJOU toys and you probably won't miss. Our favourites to combine with cunnilingus are:
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A stainless steel toy with knobs that can be used alone, with a partner, during oral, and more. It is designed for g spot stimulation but if you flip the toy over it can also work for anal play! It is cold to begin with but quickly warms up to the skin, for immediate fun place it in a bowl of warm water first. |
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Fun Factory Volta Flickering Oral Stimulator Its flickering tips amplify every lick and kiss, enhancing sensitivity and pleasure. With multiple vibration settings, you can find the perfect rhythm to complement your movements. It's the ultimate tool for unforgettable oral play. |
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It has a rotating nub under super soft silicone skin. This toy is also waterproof and easy to pack for on the go play. Your partner can use this on the clitoris, while using their own tongue on the vagina. |
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