1. 69

A favourite for many, 69 is a sex position that works for everyone! It allows both partners to stimulate each other’s genitals at the same time. So, in the case of lesbian sex, the clitoris is easily accessible during playtime. 

To practice 69, one partner will get on top of the other—one on their back, one on top. They will then position themselves topsy-turvy so that both partner’s mouths are facing each other's genitals. 

This is a great lesbian sex position because it’s mostly comfortable, and both partners can enjoy giving and receiving pleasure in unison.

Additionally, you could try the Lying 69. This is similar to 69, with the difference being that partners are lying on their sides, topsy-turvy. 

You may like the Lying 69 if you don’t fancy the weight of someone’s body on you (and vice versa). It’s also perhaps more comfortable than a regular 69.

2. Queening 

Queening aka facesitting is basically the cowgirl sex position done on your partner’s face. You can practice it in whatever way feels comfortable for you. Some examples include one partner lying down and the other sitting on their face with their knees resting next to their partner’s face, the face sitter squatting down over their partner, or resting against a headboard with the giving partner kneeling before them.

For the partner on top, facesitting is an excellent way for them to experience pleasure just as they like it. They have the power to control the speed, motion, and rhythm of their stimulation.

“It's great because it provides direct clitoral stimulation and you can focus on the pleasure you are receiving from your partner,” says Jenkins-Hall. 

3. Doggy Style

Doggy style is not just a sex position for heterosexual people! With a strap-on sex toy, this could be an incredible lesbian sex position too. 

To practice it, first, you and your partner can choose the right strap-on sex toy to suit both of your needs. Then, the penetrating partner will wear the strap-on while the receiving partner gets on all fours. When in position, penetration can be enjoyed. 

As Jenkins-Hall says, “The receiving partner can stimulate their clitoris with their fingers or a vibrator while being stroked from behind”. As for the giving partner, they could stimulate their nipples with their hands a small finger vibrator or a bullet vibrator. 

Additionally, if the receiving partner loves deep penetration, this lesbian sex position will probably be a favourite. 

4. The Wrap Around

Easy to practice, limitless potential for sexual satisfaction. The Wrap Around is an oral sex position where one partner will sit on a chair or on the edge of the bed. The other partner will then kneel in front of them, after which the receiving partner will wrap their legs around their partner’s neck and shoulders. 

You may love this position because the receiver is able to adjust the angle simply by using their hips to steer their partner. 

A tip: For the partner kneeling, you could place a pillow under your knees for extra comfort.  

5. Missionary

Another position that some believe was made for straight sex! Missionary is actually just as (or more) satisfying when done as a lesbian sex position. And all it requires is your favourite strap-on.

You can practice missionary during lesbian sex by one partner lying on top of the other, face to face. Before this, the giving partner will put their strap-on and make sure that they’re comfortable. Then, when in position, the giver of penetration will simply insert the phallic-like dildo or vibrator inside of the receiving partner. 

Alternatively, you could also use your fingers!

6. Spooning 

An intimate position that’s great for cuddling whilst enjoying penetration. So for lesbians who want to try this sex position, it is fairly simple.

The spooning lesbian sex position involves the big spoon wearing a strap-on and cuddling up to the small spoon. From here, penetration is easy and especially enjoyable for those who fancy G-spot stimulation. 

What are the benefits of this sex position? Well, we just mentioned G-spot stimulation. This is made possible because when the strap-on enters inside the vagina, it will target the front wall of the vagina, where the G-spot is located. Another benefit is that, if you don’t want to use a strap-on, you can just use your fingers.

7. Thigh to Thigh

Like a variation of scissoring, shall we say? And sure, you may feel like somewhat of a pretzel while experiencing it, but it is delightfully arousing! 

To practice it, both partners should get on their knees and kneel towards each other’s thighs so that they’re crisscrossed. In this way, both partner’s clits and vulvas will be pressed up against each other’s thighs, allowing for grinding and humping. 

Another perk to this lesbian sex position is that it makes breast play easily accessible. Add in a little vibrator if you like, and use it to caress each other. 

8. Scissoring

Yes, scissoring is a real thing. And no, it doesn’t happen like you see in porn. If you and your partner want to scissor, it’s all about coming together to get in the most comfortable position.

To practice it, have one partner lie on their side. After that, the other will straddle their partner’s leg. In this way, both clits should be aligned. When you’re there, go to town! Grind and play to give yourself the best possible stimulation. 

The benefit of this lesbian sex position is that it is a partnered activity yet it gives both lovers the chance to take charge of their own pleasure. It’s intimate (lots of body contact), but also very sexual and fun. You can also intensify the experience by adding a double-ended dildo!

9. The Raised Pelvis

Nice and easy to practice, the Raised Pelvis involves one partner on their back with a pillow placed under their lower back. A raised pelvis? Check! Then their partner will either go down on them or they can use a strap-on sex toy for penetration. They could even use an external sex toy for some clitoral stimulation. 

A bonus of this position is that it not only allows for deeper penetration because of the raised pelvis, but it also allows for G-spot stimulation. Additionally, it can be lots of fun for the giver because it’s versatile. They can go for penetration or stimulation, either with sex toys or without.

10. The V Slider

No thrills for frills, just sheer pleasure! The V Slider is when one partner sits on their lover’s lap. Then, the partner on the bottom will lube up their fingers and make a “V” shape with their first and middle finger. After this, they’ll slide those two fingers along either side of their partner’s clitoris and over the vulva. With slow and consistent strokes, this lesbian sex position can be a complete game changer.

Why is the V Slider so arousing for many? Because there are thousands of nerve endings surrounding the clitoris, allowing for intense pleasure. It’s also a great sex position to try if the receiving partner has a sensitive clitoris. 

11. Mutual Masturbation 

Mutual masturbation is fun, no matter your gender or sexual orientation. And there are two ways to practice it. One, both partners could masturbate themselves in front of their partner or two, they can masturbate each other.

If you’d like to masturbate with each other, you could lie down side-by-side, then use some lube to cup each other’s vulvas. Get creative with your hands or fingers, and see where it takes you! 

We love this lesbian sex position because it’s comfortable for both partners, and it also allows for eye contact if both turn their heads to face each other. Erotic yet intimate at the same time.

12. Two is Better than One

We’ve covered a few penetrative lesbian sex positions already, so why not make this one a two-for-one?!

This kind of play is totally possible in a number of ways. You could use two sex toys, such as a clit stimulator for clitoral pleasure and internal or G-spot vibrators for G-spot stimulation. 

Or, you could use one sex toy on your partner while they use another one on themselves. Or, you could use your hands/fingers alongside a sex toy for two times the fun.

Alternatively, double penetration might just be the golden ticket. If the receiving partner loves vaginal and anal stimulation, you could use anal sex toys and vaginal sex toys at the same time. Or, you could use a strap-on for anal penetration while your partner uses an internal vaginal sex toy. The possibilities are endless. 

The benefit of this sex position is simply the freedom that it allows. You can curate it in such a way that the best sources of pleasure are utilised and enjoyed.

13. Breast Intentions 

If you fancy the breast intentions for your playtime, why not lay on top of your partner and position yourself in such a way that your nipples are touching? From here, you can glide across their body, move back and forth, or even incorporate your fingers, tongue, lips, and/or a toy into the mix.

Why should you try it? Well, did you know that the nipples are a big erogenous zone? So big, in fact, that when they’re stimulated it sends the same message to the brain as when your genitals are stimulated. Why wouldn’t you take advantage of that fact during your lesbian sex experience?

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