1. The Missionary Gay Sex Position

Missionary isn’t just for heterosexual couples! Contrary to popular belief, the missionary style for gay men is anything but ordinary. 

To practice missionary-style gay sex, the bottom will lie on their back with their legs open and slightly raised. The top will then get on top of their partner, using their arms and legs to stay steady. Then, the top will insert their penis into the bottom’s anus.

This gay sex position is great because it offers the intimacy and connection of face-to-face sex. It also allows for some kissing to happen during penetration.

2. The Doggy Style Gay Sex Position

While doggy style is a relatively easy gay sex position, thus making it great for beginners, it does offer deep penetration. If you’re not entirely ready for this kind of sex, then the depth and speed of the thrusting should be controlled accordingly.

To practice doggy-style sex, the bottom can either lie flat on their stomach or get on all fours. If it’s the former, a pillow could be placed under the groin area to elevate the butt. Then, the top will get on top of the bottom and penetrate them.

As we mentioned, this gay sex position is great for deep penetration. So if that’s something you’re looking for, you’ll love it. Another benefit of doggy-style sex is that it’s comfortable for both partners, so there can be more focus on pleasure.

3. The Spooning Gay Sex Position

Spooning is an intimate act, whether it is during cuddling or during sex.

To have spooning gay sex, both partners will lie on their side, facing away from each other. The top will then be the big spoon and the bottom will be the little spoon. This offers the chance for the top to penetrate the bottom. 

You may love this position, especially if you’re having and/or you’re a beginner because it is a way for partners to have more skin-to-skin contact, which is nice during a sensual session.

4. Gay Anal Sex Positions Using Toys

Another way in which gay men can enjoy sex and penetration is to use sex toys! 

For example, you could use a prostate massager sex toy to penetrate a partner, which will effectively give them some excellent P-spot penetration. Or, you could use a vibrating cock ring during anal sex to facilitate bigger and stronger erections and to feel the sexy vibes during anal. 

There are so many other ways to play when it comes to gay sex toys and sex toys for men. Luckily for you, the world is your oyster when it comes to exploring them.

1. The Cliff Diver Gay Sex Position

This sex position is similar to doggy style, but it has a twist. 

To practice it, the bottom will get on all fours, and the top will get behind them and start penetrating. Then, the top will stand up and lift the bottom up by the thighs or waist at the same time, making it possible for the bottom to wrap its legs around the top’s back.

One of the reasons this sex position is so great is that it allows for deep penetration. It also really solidifies the roles during sex, as the top is more dominant. This can be fun for those who like to take on either dominant or submissive roles in the bedroom.

2. The Back It In Gay Sex Position

This sex position for gay men is different in that it gives the bottom the opportunity to take control. 

To practice it, the top will sit down in a chair and bring their knees to their chest. In this position, their penis will be outward and forward. Then, the bottom will back it up so that the top can enter them. When penetration begins, the bottom can thrust as they find pleasurable to gain the best momentum.

You may love this sex position because the bottom does all the work to find their bliss. They know their body best, so controlling the speed, depth, and rhythm could be an exciting change for them.

3. The Knees Up Gay Sex Position

You can give it a try by having the bottom lie down on a couch, bed, or floor. The top will then grab the bottom’s ankles or calves and push their legs back toward the bottom’s chest. Then, the top can insert themselves into the bottom. 

A tip: the more pushed back the bottom’s legs are, the tighter the stimulation. So, if you’re a top who seeks that tight feeling, and your bottom enjoys that kind of penetration, then this position will be perfect.

4. The Rocking Chair Gay Sex Positions

“If the van’s a-rockin’, don’t come a-knockin’,” as the expression goes. And this gay sex position is all about the rocking. 

It starts off with the top lying down on their back and pulling their knees to their chest. The bottom will then sit backwards between the top’s legs in such a way that they can insert their partner’s penis into them. Once in position, the bottom can rock back and forth to find the best rhythm.

Why might you like this position for gay men? It gives off a different kind of stimulation because it allows for rocking back and forth. It also gives the top a great view!

5. The See-Saw Gay Sex Position

This position is a kind of workout and is better suited to couples who are experienced in anal sex. 

To practice it, the top will lie down on the ground and rest their calves straight on a chair. The bottom will then mount the top’s legs until their partner’s penis is inside of them. 

This is a goodie because it allows both partners to control the rhythm, speed, and depth. Teamwork at its best!

6. The Fisting Gay Sex Position

While this position doesn’t involve penetration with a penis, it does involve penetration. 

Fisting is when one partner uses a lot of lube and slides their entire hand inside of their partner, penetrating them. Once inside, the fingers could remain clenched or could be kept straight.

To fist someone, the person would first have to put their hand in a position that resembles a duck’s beak. They would not insert their fist into the anus (which is called “punching”.), but they would have their hand in a duck’s beak position, keeping the fingers as close together as possible until the entire hand is inserted into their partner. 

Of course, fisting will take some practice. You may want to use butt plugs or larger anal toys to prepare for this kind of penetration. When you are ready, however, being fisted can be amazing because it offers the chance to stimulate the prostate.

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