For many, anal play is simply out of the question. And that could be for a number of different reasons.
For one, yes—anal play is still considered a taboo. In fact, it’s considered shameful and unacceptable for a lot of individuals. Secondly, the way in which one is brought up, their morals, religion, and society can play a big role in denying themselves any anal stimulation.
Then, there’s also the aspect of anal play having a homosexual undertone. Even in 2023, many heterosexual men deny themselves any anal stimulation as they believe it’s something only practiced between gay people. This couldn’t be further from the truth—and we’ll tell you why in this article. But that’s not all we’ll be talking about.
Today, we’ll tackle topics concerning anal play in general, myths about anal play, sex toys such as anal beads, and some of our favourite anal sex toy recommendations.
Let’s get started on a journey that could completely transcend your sex life!
Discovering the Truth About Anal Beads: Tips, Debunking Myths, and Our 2023 Recommendations
So, before we branch out into the various topics on today's agenda, allow us to tell you more about anal play and anal stimulation.
There are various ways to enjoy this kind of sexual activity. Some examples include:
- Analingus
- Anal fingering
- Anal penetration
- Sex toy anal penetration
- Anal massaging & stimulation
Analingus is oral sex for the anus. It’s when someone stimulates their partner’s anus using their mouth, lips, tongue and/or teeth. Analingus is also more popularly known as “rimming”.
Anal fingering is exactly what you may imagine it to be. It is when one inserts one or more fingers into their anus for sexual pleasure. This can be done solo or with a partner.
Anal penetration is when something enters the anus for sexual pleasure. Having said that, anal fingering is a type of anal penetration, yes. Another way to enjoy anal penetration is by receiving it from a penis owner or by someone with a strap-on dildo. There are other anal sex toys can be used for anal penetration though…
Anal sex toys come in a variety of shapes, colours, designs, and functions. There are anal butt plugs, anal vibrators, anal beads, and dual vibrators that can be used for anal stimulation and other stimulation at the same time (such as a prostate and perineum anal sex toy). Today, we’ll be focusing on anal beads!
Lastly, there is anal massaging and stimulation. This is a non-penetrative way to play, and involves merely touching, licking, or massaging the area around the anus and the perineum for added pleasure.
Why Should You Introduce Anal Beads to Your Sex Life?
Now that we’ve talked a bit about anal play, and the different ways you can have fun, let’s zone in on why anal beads are great for your sex life.
First off, it’s important to know why anal stimulation can take your solo or partnered sex life from zero to hero.
Why Is Anal Stimulation So Pleasurable?
Anal play is a genderless activity that can feel entirely pleasurable for everyone.
For vulva owners, anal penetration can indirectly stimulate the G-spot and the A-spot, two very pleasurable spots inside the vagina. So, on top of the sexy feels that anal stimulation brings, you’ll also have vaginal stimulation, making it an even sexier affair.
For penis owners, the prostate is located inside the anus. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that, when stimulated, grows in size. It has the power to induce full-body orgasms that are unlike any other type of orgasm. In fact, many penis owners agree that prostate orgasm are the best they’ve ever had in their life.
And so, now you know why anal stimulation is so pleasurable, let’s get into the thick of it… anal beads!
What Are Anal Beads?
Anal beads are a kind of sex toy that consists of multiple balls attached in a series. These balls can vary in size, or be the same size. Either way, these anal beads are then inserted into the anus and pulled out at different speeds to feel all kinds of anal bliss.
Why Are Anal Beads Great for Your Sex Life?
Anal beads can be used solo, or with a partner during foreplay or intercourse. They stimulate all those wonderful nerve endings in the anus—an erogenous zone, allowing for a plethora of endless pleasure.
Not just that, but when anal beads are moved in and out, it stimulates the anal sphincter, which can lead to incredible orgasms. Better yet, at the height of ecstasy, pulling out anal beads can increase your orgasms tenfold.
Our Anal Bead Tips
Using anal beads is quite simple. But, enjoying anal stimulation in general requires some patience and time.
You see, the anus doesn’t produce natural lubrication like the vagina. It also isn’t as elastic as the vagina. For that reason, you’ll have to go slow and use a lot of lube.
Start off small by using one finger or two, and then perhaps you could go on to use an anal training kit. This may prove to be the magical activity that gets you to those incredible anal orgasms.
Then, for those who are ready to start using anal beads, you have the delicious task of choosing what type you’d like to use.
Are you interested in a rigid or soft strand of beads? Do you want them to be the same size, or would you like them to get bigger as you insert it? What kind of material would you like to use?
Hint: glass anal beads and stainless steel anal beads are amazing as they allow you to experiment with temperature play and they’re super easy to clean.
Some other tips to consider when using anal beads:
- When you decide to pull out your anal beads, deep breathing can aid in more comfort and pleasure
- Make sure to start off small and then work your way up in size
- Perhaps use them by yourself before enjoying them with a partner so that you can get used to the sensation
- You don’t have to insert every single ball if you don’t want to
- If you do pelvic floor exercises whilst using anal beads, it can increase the power of your orgasm
- Always use lots of lube (lube that can safely be paired with the material of your anal beads)
- Pull out your anal beads at the height of orgasm for even bigger climaxing
- You can use a condom on your anal beads for safety, and to be a barrier in case things get a little… messy
- If it feels uncomfortable or painful, stop—it takes time to become used to new anal play sensations
- Clean your anal beads after every use
Common Anal Bead Myths
As we mentioned earlier, there are a few reasons why some may not want to experiment with anal beads or any kind of anal stimulation. And a lot of those reasons may just be because of common anal bead myths. Let’s shatter those myths, shall we?
Myth: Anal Beads Aren’t Pleasurable
“All people, sexualities, and genders have lots of pleasurable nerve endings and erectile tissue in the anus,” says sex coach Georgia Grace. “In fact, the anus has the second-highest concentration of nerve endings in your body—the clitoris is number one.”
Myth: Using Anal Beads Is Painful
When it comes to anal play, yes—it will take time to get used to the sensation. We won’t lie and tell you that it’ll feel amazing from the get-go. But, if you take it slow and listen to your body, you’ll be able to feel all those sexy sensations. Any type of anal stimulation should never be painful however. If it is, you’ve over exerted yourself.
Myth: Using Anal Beads Is Only for Homosexuals
This is absolutely not true. Regardless of gender or sexuality, anal play is something that’s entirely enjoyable and satisfying. For tons of reasons, mentioned above, using anal beads and engaging in different types of anal stimulation is a great way to experience new kinds of orgasms, often more powerful than what you’re used to.
Myth: Anal Beads Will Make Your Anal Muscles Weak
Some may believe that engaging in anal penetration or using anal sex toys can result in the weakening of the anal sphincter. But there is no evidence to support this myth.
How Do They Differ to Butt Plugs?
While butt plugs and anal beads are both used for anal penetration, they are different.
Butt plugs are teardrop-shaped anal sex toys of varying sizes that have a flared base. There are many kinds of butt plugs—some vibrate and some don’t, some are beaded for extra stimulation, and some have jeweled or colourful bases for an aesthetic look.
Butt plugs are used by inserting the toy into the anus and keeping it in-place. This allows the wearer to feel pressure and a weighted feeling that many people adore.
Anal beads on the other hand have a different appearance, as we mentioned. They are a string of balls that are inserted and removed from the anus.
In short, butt plugs stay inside of the anus and anal beads can be pulled in and out for stimulation.
Our Recommendations for Beginners
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Icicles No. 74 Black Heart Glass Butt Plug
Hand-crafted with passion and lust, the Icicles No. 74 is a gorgeous butt plug that has a pretty black heart shape at the end, creating an aesthetic that’s entirely desirable. Another perk of this butt plus is that it is made of glass, making it a fun way to experiment with temperature play, and easy to clean! |
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If you’re looking for beginner friendly anal beads, look no further than the Romp Amp. They’re small and flexible, and they graduate in bead sizes, so you can take your time feeling the different sensations in size when you’re ready. |
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Rocks Off Petite Sensations Bubbles Vibrating Anal Beads Perfect for first time anal players, the Rocks Off Petite Sensations Bubbles is small, comes in a firm T-shape, and is velvety soft. These anal beads widen in girth, so you can take your time to feel the different sizes as you progress in pleasure. |
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Satisfyer Lolli Plug 1 Vibrating Anal Beads Innocent-looking, but wildly arousing—the Satisfyer Lolli Plug 1 has three ascending diamond-shaped beads for varying levels of intensity. It also has two motors, so you can rumble your way into even more powerful play time when the mood strikes. |
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B-Vibe Triplet Vibrating Anal Beads With three flexible tapered-sized beads, an easy-to-hold handle, and two motors—you’ll definitely find sheer pleasure in these anal beads by B-Vibe. It has six different vibration levels, 15 vibration patterns, and comes with a wireless remote control for some saucy hands-free play! |
Our Recommendations for Anal Experts
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Femme Fun Vibrating Anal Beads Anal experts looking for a new kind of thrill, the Femme Fun Vibrating Anal Beads come with 20 different vibrating modes, has an easy-to-use one-button interface, is lightweight and compact, and 100 percent waterproof. Better yet, this sweet treat has a memory function, so you can pick up the pleasure where you left off whenever you fancy a pick-me-up! |
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B-Vibe Cinco Vibrating Anal Beads Go big or go home! The B-Vibe Cinco Vibrating Anal Beads comes with five flexible tapered XL beads, making it truly one of a kind. Use its easy-to-grip handle or its remote control, and slip into your favourite kind of sexual bliss. |
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Icicles No. 67 Clear Curved Glass Anal Beads & Dildo Embrace your desire for anal play with an elegant and upscale handcrafted set of anal beads that are simply luxurious. The Icicles No. 67 is a sleek glass wand of varying sized balls, and was made for those who truly desire strong anal stimulation and even stronger anal orgasms. |
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Le Wand Swerve Stainless Steel Dildo Spoiled for choice? The Le Wand Swerve Stainless Steel Dildo is dual-ended, so you can have it any way you like it! On one end, you’ll find one big and bulbous ball for toe-curling sessions of anal pleasure. On the other end, you’ll find smaller rippled beads for a fulfilling massage. Enjoy the cold temperature against your skin, and go to town with this diverse pleasure product. |
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Nu Sensuelle Flexii Vibrating Anal Beads Not one, not two, but three motors make up the Nu Sensuelle Flexii Vibrating Anal Beads. That’s a triple threat right there! These anal beads are flexible and made in such a way that it follows the curves of your body. It also comes with 15 different intensities for the ride of a lifetime. |
Summary
In short, it’s quite evident by now that we’re big advocates of anal pleasure.
There are so many ways in which anal stimulation can bring about sexual pleasure and arousal, and we wholeheartedly recommend that newbies give it a go—slowly and gently—in order to experience what our magical bodies are really capable of.
And for more experienced anal players, we hope you’ve found a new toy to play with! You deserve it!
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