When You Are Faced With a Larger Penis (or Sex Toy)
While there’s a huge fascination regarding the size of one’s penis or phallic-shaped pleasure product, many women aren’t looking for a massive penis or sex toy. They’re simply looking for a suitable motion in the ocean, if you catch our drift.
Having said that, if you’re being intimate with someone who’s got a larger member, or purchased a sex toy that’s bigger than expected, it may initially may seem to not be a one-size-fits-all situation and be quite daunting. You may experience have the fear that it could be painful or the opposite, that you will enjoy it so much that you won’t be able to enjoy the smaller pleasures anymore.
In reality, the vagina is quite flexible. When the body is aroused, blood rushes to this erogenous zone, making it much more accommodating to a larger penis or sex toy. And the more aroused you are, the more accommodating the vagina is – you will be surprised! And don’t worry, it will go back to its normal size after play time because of its flexible nature.
Kegel Exercises
However, if you would like to improve how quickly your vagina ‘bounces back’ or want to enjoy the ‘tighter’ feeling more often – do kegels! Because when you do your kegel exercises, you’re strengthening your pelvic floor. This will not only help you to accommodate a larger penis or sex toy, but will also pave the way for better and stronger orgasms. We recommend WEVIBE BLOOM VIBRATING KEGELS, and SVAKOM NOVA KEGEL BALLS, three different balls to help train your pelvic floor.
So, if you are ready to not only accommodate a larger size, but actually enjoy and gain maximum pleasure from it, here are some tips and tricks!
Using a Larger Sex Toy or Enjoying a Larger Penis
Take a Warm Bath
Taking a warm bath will relax your muscles, and will allow for better blood flow. You can begin with self-exploration and slowly introduce your favorite submergible sex toys for additional stimulation. We recommend the LELO Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager for a buildable clitoral orgasm or the Fun Factory Sundaze Pulse Vibrator for G-Spot bliss. Warming arousal will make your vagina more relaxed and enable to better accommodate a larger penis or toy.
Massage or Oral Sex
For those who are sexually active, you could choose other ways to get you and your partner going. Incorporate a lot of foreplay before penetration, as this will allow extra blood to flow to the vagina, making it more flexible and hence accommodating. You can begin with a sensual massage and further stimulate the senses with aromatic massage oils. Combine the experience with a wand massager like the powerful Original Doxy Plug-In Wand Massager to further relax the muscles and when ready, progress to stimulating the intimate areas. You can both also enjoy the thrilling experience of Oral sex. It might be a lot more pleasurable for you to take his larger penis in your mouth to begin with. Finally, adding a little bondage, like the SCANDAL BLACKOUT EYEMASK, can heighten your other senses during foreplay and make you eager to enjoy the filling sensation of your partner.
Lubricant
Lubricant is a great sexual wellness product for any and everyone, but will prove to be even more effective if you’ve got a sex toy that you feel is too big, or your partner is a bit too large. Lube will help create a smoother glide, but just remember to take things slow and at your own comfort level. We suggest the LELO Personal Moisturizer, a water-based lube, or Uberlube, a silicone-based lube.
Stoppers Rings
Wide flexible rings placed at the base of a penis or sex toy can help reduce the insertable length to one that is more comfortable. SILICONE STACKER RINGS can be stacked to achieve the desired length and can be removed one by one once your body is more aroused and you feel ready for deeper penetration. Stopper rings can give you peace of mind that you won't have the accidental ‘slip’ while also giving the added bonus of helping your partner maintain a longer lasting erection.
Take Control
By choosing to take control during partnered penetration, such as deciding what position to try, you’ll be able to be the master of your own pleasure. You can experiment with different kinds of styles to find which one feels the best. Remember that communication with your partner is super important too when it comes to getting the best.
Tight Missionary
To make things more comfortable, you could take on the tight missionary position. This is when your legs are kept together during your tryst, allowing less penetration (but still a tight feeling of it all going inside for your partner).
Spooning
While you can’t spoon your sex toy, you can have sex in this position. Spooning allows for less penetration, and is always a really intimate way to incorporate kissing, cuddling, and wandering hands.
The Finale
You can also save your penetrative fun til near the end of your session when you are more relaxed, aroused and be able to enjoy it more.
Still not quite right?
If none of these tips or techniques work for you, don’t feel bad nor coerced into doing something you’re not comfortable with. Your pleasure is your number one priority, and you deserve to be respected when it comes to reaching new sexual heights.
If you can’t seem to find a way to enjoy your larger sex toy, put it away for another time in your life. You may be surprised how quickly that time may come around. Quality sex toys can withstand the test of time if looked after and stored appropriately.
Finding the perfect sex toy can be a journey because we are all unique. While trialing and testing is fun, doing thorough research when purchasing online is key because unfortunately satisfaction guarantees cannot be claimed when it comes to sex toys as they cannot be returned for hygiene reasons. Make sure you read the product dimension and look for review pictures and videos to get a better, more realistic understanding of the product. This will help you find the toy that delivers the kind of pleasure you really crave.
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